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How spicy is Phoebe Berman's Gonna Lose It?
It's 3 out of 5 on the Loracle heat scale (Spicy). On-page intimacy, but the story comes first.
Does Phoebe Berman's Gonna Lose It have trigger warnings?
Yes. Readers flag 3 content warnings, including panic attacks/disorders, mental illness and homophobia. The full list is below.
Spice level
3 of 5 · Spicy
SweetClosed door
WarmFade to black
SpicyA few open-door scenes
SteamyFrequent and explicit
ScorchingVery explicit
Content warnings
Before you start
3 content warnings
About the book
The story
A hopeless romantic with anxiety gives herself one month before her thirtieth birthday to finally lose her virginity.
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